Don't Deprive

The parking lot at the gym was jam packed this morning.  The cardio machines monopolized by a bunch of brand new faces.  The New Year's Resolution Makers are out in droves, bright-faced with the desire to lose weight and shed old habits.  It makes the gym seem like a three ring circus, bustling with activity. 

Unfortunately (or fortuantely, depending on your outlook), it won't last for long.  Most of those optimistic newborn, gym-goers just aren't in it for the long haul.  In fact, the average amount of time a New Year's resolution lasts is only 10 short days. (I heard that figure on the radio, so you KNOW it's true. :-/ ) 

That's because it's hard.  And often people make resolutions because that's what you're supposed to do this time of year, not because they are truly motivated to make lasting life changes.  Plus they go about the whole weightloss thing without solid guidance.  They starve themselves and feel like crap and then decide they were happier before the whole weightloss journey began.

Want to stick with it?  Try adding the adoption of good habits into your resolution list.  Instead of depriving yourself by resolving to "Eat less" or "Give up soda and cookies" try putting a positive spin to it.  Resolve to "drink at least 8 glasses of water each day" or "eat at least 5 servings of vegetables".  It just might provide the psychology you need to stick with the resolution beyond the craziness that is the gym in January. 

And as your new resolutions become good habits, add some more.  Drastic life changes are very hard to stick with long term.  Don't set yourself up for failure.  By adding good habits into your life, you'll be replacing bad ones.  Before you know it, you're on your way to a healthier you.